Do you advise a shy person to not go to clubs?

Im shy and never saw the face of a club! What can i do to loosen up?what should i expect the 1st time i go clubbing?Do you advise a shy person to not go to clubs?
take a few shots and drinks at the beginning of the night to loosen up. that's what i do.Do you advise a shy person to not go to clubs?
No. I suggest you try going to clubs. There, you might lessen your shyness.
A few drinks and my hat and I'm GOOD TO GO.


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I'm shy, but I go to clubs....but mostly to play pool and drink =D
If I were you I would go with some friends that you trust. What to expect? Every club is different. Expect to have fun.





Be safe and good luck!
absolutely.:O) clubs are fun.:O) a lot dancing on the dance floor and people are having a lot of fun.:O)
You should go with some friends so that you have people to talk to if you're just getting used to it. Also, they can help watch out for you if something dangerous happens.
drink a little. Or go once your there it's not as bad as it sounds alot of time even with so many people around you you can still feel like you and your friends are the only ones around.
im shy and i do not like clubs. but i dont like that music either.





but after a few drinks my shyness seems to go away :P
Its not for everybody.I would say do what makes you happy.Maybe you want to try it out,that's fine,but dont force yourself to be someone your not.Like my hat?
I totally understand cause im shy. If you are cute, expect to get hit on. Expect to get asked to dance. There will be a lot of people, some may be drunk, so if you dont like that scene, dont go cause you'll feel uncomfortable. Go with a bunch of friends, I wouldnt suggest going alone, even though I doubt that you would if you are shy. Who knows, you could be a totally different person on the dance floor.
I'm shy also but i go with a group of really out going friends and they help me to loosen up and have a good time. It helps to drink a little too.
If you are a girl, shy doesn't matter. You don't have to go up to people, you just have to be pretty enough to be approached. Girls have it so easy.
Everyone is just as frightened as you the first time in a club. I would garner the help of a friend and go together. Make sure there is dancing as it gives a person an opportunity for an excuse to talk to you. Dress up and look your best. Smile alot and move to the music. If someone asks you to dance, say Yes no matter if you are interested in the person or not, as many are as shy as you and fearful of rejection. The thing in going to clubs is to have fun, watch others and get an idea of how they act and dress for the next week-end. After a few times, you will know some people and feel much more confident. Good luck! Jen
Hmm...well..im shy too..very shy...but you can't hide your whole life and its likely that if you do you'll be very lonely. Give it a try and be open minded. Clubs are loud, crowded and noisy but they're fun. It's not like you're going to be standing out either. Theres usually so many people there paying attention to what it is that they're doing themselves that its likely that they won't notice you. However be warned...many people who are looking for someone may see you alone and apprpach you...it's okay just be cool and calm and talk to them. It will help...promise.